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Fall 2003 Devotional

Bitterness
Unforgiveness that has sat in a life for a long time

© 2003 by Tom Gaddis

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Did you ever smell a moist dishcloth that has sat on the sink counter a few days? Does the word “stench,” “putrid,” or simply “dang, that smells bad,” come to mind?

Somebody explained this odor to me one day. It’s the smell that comes from decay, as microscopic bacteria grow on moist food particles.

This happens with people. People can give off an aroma of bitterness. Unforgiveness, like bacteria, is microscopic and unseen. It attaches itself to an offense and, if it is lays in my life too long, it will turn into bitterness.

Ever notice the differences in the elderly? One 89-year-old will be sweet as an angel, while another 89-year-old will be the wicked witch of … Well, you get the idea. Why is one bitter and the other better?

For sure, life is an equal opportunity employer when it comes to serving up hardships and difficult people. All people get wounded. But it is in how we handle these wounds that makes all the difference.

As a small boy, I remember gashing open my knee on a jagged edge of glass. Wounds happen. But if these punctures aren’t taken care of, infection sets in. So it is the same with punctures to our soul. They happen. People do people things. But the call to us is to do a God-thing: Forgive others of their trespasses when they have crossed boundaries, come into my space, and hurt me!

Are You Bitter?

Forgiveness is the only cure. Forgiveness is never an option; it is a command. Someone wisely said, “You don’t have to be in prison to be doing time.” Could it be that you are doing some time? Are you locked behind the bars of offenses others have committed against you? Are you doing time and growing bitter in the process?

“How do I know if I’m bitter?” You know you are bitter when…

  1. You feel hurt—you have a strong emotional reaction when the offender shows up in person or when their name is mentioned. This reaction wants them to hurt and get a little of what they dished out to you.
  2. You still have critical thoughts towards your offender.
  3. You would enjoy embarrassing your offender.
  4. You quickly rationalize away the verse that says, “Love your enemies.”
  5. You are looking more and more drained and haggard because of the inner wound festering within, and the washcloth of your life has got a sour scent.

For Further Study:
The Greek word for bitterness is pikria, meaning “poison, pungent or sharp.”
Colossians 3:19
Hebrews 12:15
Ephesians 4:31
Romans 3:14
Psalms 10:7
Mark 11:24-25

Acts 8:23 (NIV) “full of bitterness”: a state of extreme impiety or enmity to God.
What did Peter see in Simon that made him associate the willingness to pay for the supernatural manifestations of the Spirit with bitterness?

Hebrews 12:15 (NIV) “bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many”: bite, acrid, sharpness

© 2003 by Susan Gaddis

 

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